Dear Maggie Montclair,
My sister-in-law recently passed away while living with her daughter. She was originally from another state and had many friends, therefore there will be a Memorial Service in both states.
I sent a sympathy card with money in it to her daughter and family from my family. Should I also send cards to her sister and brother who live in another state?
Cornered and confused
Dear Confused,
I'm sorry for your loss. Cards are always in good taste. A rememberance of a happy memory of the deceased make it even more special.
Money is always optional and seems to be a regional practice. Send the cards. I'm sure they will appreciate your thoughtfulness. M
P.S. Some people love sending cards and some don't. It is a personal preference. However, there are times when a card is definitely appropriate to express your condolences, congratulations, or birthday wishes to someone you care about. Gertie says, "if you don't care enough to write a few words that make it special, then save your stamp!"
